Showing posts with label Mental health. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mental health. Show all posts

Friday, July 10, 2009

The man goes off tracking, reason from mother


Outside the affair and the marriage the nature, was already not the new word. Around us, will regularly have the friend to have like this or outside such marriage the story. Cause troubles the man always, is injured the woman always, the ending forever is exactly the same, but the reason actually respectively has each difference.

Recently, a French child medical expert just promoted one named "Adulterer" the book, has discovered a wicker basket reason for masculine “the improper behavior”, also has initiated many arguments from this. During the interview, this expert has said in his eye the man “is disloyal” the reason.

The man goes off tracking, reason from mother

Reporter: You talk about in the book, the man goes off tracking and is not only “the sex act”?

Professor: Certainly. The men and women are the same, not only “the sex act” is pure which we usually understood “the nature”behavior, when often is for sought for them just to be born, in the mother bosom feels short, the happy condition.
Reporter: This tin was too fresh. Your meaning meant that the man is disloyal to the woman, is for retrieves “the mother” rightly the loyalty?

Professor: Yes. When the man chooses a woman, proved that he could “find” formerly the happy heart which from her body obtained from the mother body, but this condition could not continue to be too long. Because in the man innermost soul, the mother forever is occupying first; Other women can only arrange at most to second.

Reporter: Says like this according to you, the man goes off tracking, wrong should put the blame on his mother?

Professor: Was heavy with “wrong” this word, I wanted only to be able to be called “the responsibility”. In fact, the mother definitely may let the son get rid of them “the shadow”, but is very regrettable, many mother have neglected these. Starts from the babyhood, the mother should not defend irrevocably side the son, forever “satisfies” them. But must learn to let loose child's hands and feet, lets them many and the little friend in the same place. Otherwise, when after the boy grows into the man, he runs into a strange female every time, can strengthen them diligently at first with mother's subtle contacting, “mother's shadow” has also existed.

The man goes off tracking is only for a while “the nature”

Reporter: The woman often believed that the man is “with the lower part pondered” animal, is this explained that the sexual desire has been corroding man's soul?

Professor: No! This is many women to the man the misunderstanding. Indeed, I acknowledged that man's sexual desire is stronger, may also say that is one which of reasons the man goes off track, but this cannot explain that they do not care about love. Indulges again the man will not choose his other half casually. When they choose the woman, in subconscious is seeking with the mother close woman; But hereafter the marriage has the problem, also many are because some unresolved questions causes with the mother between.

Reporter: after “is exposed”, man most a few words which said to the woman are: “I and she are only play casually, I love you.”This is the deceit?

Professor: We may look like this, when the man chooses a woman and marries with her, explained that this woman occupied the important position in the man heart. Or, he chooses her, is because she is similar with her mother, this kind similar even surpasses man own imagination. For all this, the man will be weary of the irrevocable life. Therefore, many men presented “is fickle” the behavior. Because this kind “the curiosity” causes offtracking, is both sexes the most controversial topic. Actually, says to the majority men, “impulsion” from now on, “love” formidable, he counter-excessive “I loves you” is not the rumor.

After going off tracking, do not disclose

Reporter: We are also willing to believe that the human “the nature” is originally friendly, but general meeting some exceptions. If really and is fickle the man married, is should give up or should continue?
Professor: That must look that husbands and wives, this kind of matter could not be generally spoken. I have several suggestions: First, will be the wife not to depend on the husband one time to go off tracking determines him lifelong to go off tracking; Next, for each other a calm conversation opportunity. However the present phenomenon is, after the man goes off tracking, acknowledges the mistake on own initiative to the companion, basic is the futile effort. Therefore, no matter the man or the woman, after going off tracking, do not tell own companion!

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Wednesday, June 17, 2009

The hug is helpful to the promotion both sexes relations

Had a woman of letters saying:“the hug is one kind of movement which I most like. We seek in the boundless world love, but will be is searching one forever the without limits hug ......Before this mortal body decays dry, once some people brought to smile hug me, proved that I enjoyed pass away on showing loving concern.”Indeed, to many women, the hug is the love most perfect expression. But the male often cannot think through, what do two people in have well together greasily every day? The American masculine network magazine “asked that he” publishes the article to this kind of difference, releases for the man question and answer is puzzled.

The scientific research discovery, the hug may stimulate the cerebrum release pitocin, it is called “the hug hormone”, is one kind “the companion adhesive”, can make each other feeling to be intimate with, consolidated both sexes relations. Looking from the evolution angle, body's intimate contact is strengthens the emotion link the good means that the female also hoped causes the man forever to be loyal to itself. Hugs appropriately, but can also let the human feel that comfortable, the mood is joyful, this is the woman cherishes the hug another reason.

The male regarding the hug repel, mainly lies in its subjective consciousness “shy, to be embarrassed and to be independent”. They thought that the expression sentiment's way has many kinds, the body language is only a bad plan, perhaps to arouse the method which the sexual desire uses. But the male neglected a point, the hug has been able to let their cerebrum release pitocin similarly, this was helpful to the alleviation pressure, the adjustment mood.

In besides in sex life daily life, both sides, if can shake hand frequently, touching, the hug, that its sex life number of times are most, the degree of satisfaction reaches as high as 72 points. The intimate behavior are less, the sex life frequency is lower. If in the daily life “loves, but far it”, “respects one another as one would a guest”, sex life degree of satisfaction sudden drop 27 point many. “asked that he” the website therefore suggested that the husbands and wives should hug at least every day one time, after before is not only regards as it the sexual affection, the play or, plays. When hug, the male may stroke wife's luxuriant gently, kisses her forehead, strokes her arm and the back gently, ten figures buckle, will let each other feel intimately.

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Monday, June 8, 2009

The parents interfere are more, relates with the children is more anxious

An American research discovery, many parents once had had the relational tense time with they grown-up children, the children age is bigger, the question is more serious. The University of Michigan manages this investigation and study Researcher Jina Budi said: “the parents and children's relations are one which of most long-time relational the humanity establishes, usually is very positive and supports mutually, but also often contains enrages, is anxious and is contradictory.”Budi et al. investigated some parents and 22 year-old above children altogether 474 people, involves the question including to create the relational tense each aspect, like disposition difference, children financial situation, housework management custom, life style and so on. The result showed that the parents the children more complained the following question initiation the relations are more intense than: Children's life style and behavior (including finance and housework management). Budi believed that this is because the parents have more investments in the reciprocity, moreover cares about children's maturing very much.

The parents and daughter's relations are more intense than and son's relations, because the daughter and the parents relates is closer, thus has the contradictory opportunity to be bigger. The children reflected that is more anxious than with mother's relations the father, mainly concentrates contradictory in “the disposition difference” and “parents' interference” on - - the mother are more than the father to children's interference, is also higher to intimate relation's request.what is beyond expectation, the children age is bigger, is not better with parents' relations. Budi extrapolated that compared, the children who with the young people marched into the middle age has also established own family, has shouldered the multiple roles, to dropped with parents' relational investment; On the other hand, the parents are this time senile gradually, needs children's attention, finally has formed the contradiction.

“the evasion contradiction is not means”, Budi unifies other research to obtain the positive information: The parents and the children want constructively to solve the problem, for example contains opposite party wish, to understand opposite party idea and so on.

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Sunday, June 7, 2009

Office friendship eight big death anniversaries

You have thought you are an unequalled staff - - are not late, do not leave early, complete the work punctually, ever does not walk off with another's possessions to company's big and small stationery. However do not forget, not only weighs a person job performance the fit and unfit quality sometimes and only looked that individual own performance, with periphery environment's coordinated is also one of important inspection aspects. requests itself strictly constantly in the work no doubt well, but if are excessively many with the colleague discord, also will become you to lead to the steps to success the hidden rock, cannot look down upon. Therefore, nobody wants into not in the least the personal connection “the repugnant insect”. The following has the mirror, please compare was looking whether in oneself did have no intention to violate has endured.

1st, revelation secret

The so-called secret, certainly is having the secret facts which secretive or are not willing to make public to the world, based on to good friend trust, perhaps to indicate that oneself to the good friend the trust, only then private densely will make a clean breast. If has heard own private dense to make public in other population, does not need to ask, the rebel has one. The friendship which and the trust is betrayed the human who is certainly annoying once paid. If in the secret involves the third party, will cause matter one round, but beyond redemption. Therefore, no matter is the good intentions or the malicious revelation secret, is the office friendship big death anniversary.

2nd, alone being promoted

If you are promoted first compared to the good friend, fears this section of friendships very quickly on the transposition, because two person of statuses are not equal, in addition in psychology subtle competition and comparison, the sour taste fills the air very quickly, does not ferment because of the sense of insecurity feels inferior also the unseemly behavior. Certainly, some people because of will not take into consideration good friend's mood to give up being promoted the opportunity, but if has occurred, remembered that will forgive opposite party mood, will make the suitable response, and will perform to comfort the debonding as far as possible.

3rd, dashing guy current

The condition good man is between the good friend the severest test, if dashing guy to good friend between a model person shows good will the feeling, very difficult not to cause the damage. If two people like the identical man, that announced friendship breaking off simply. Best independent processing emotion life, before love foundation is not yet stable, even if most intimate friend, also do not tow is going to the man who together appointment that has not been clear about the relations. To do not like probing, also do not seek after the victory the feeling.

4th, spreading malicious gossip

If you crave extremely in disseminating some vulgar interest rumor, at least do not count on that other people crave similarly in listening attentively. These “different insufficient is the stratagem” for fear that the colleague sooner or later will evade to you are inferior. Even if you rely on the favorite who each kind of hearsay becomes in the tea waterhouse for a while, but has a big mouth to one talker, forever nobody will treat you by the sincerity.

5th, poison gas launching a psychological attack

The discontent has mind filled with, is in a towering rage, these are “broadcast the poison” the most remarkable characteristic. Although occasionally some “confidential” complains can the how many construction one kind “the office friendship” the false appearance, but talks endlessly the complaint can let the person be miserable beyond description. Perhaps you complain one way which regards as has a frank and sincere talk, but will complain sues terminus will then sublimate anger. The people strange, since you will be so discontented to the present situation, not will trade why simply an environment, will go to faraway places.

6th, flatters boss

If one of good friends likes flattering boss, struggles for favor to boss, usually will cause another side not to be able to get used to seeing affects the sentiment. If needs to flatter really, the two people reach agreement to flatter. Do not make some petty actions in private, lets opposite party suspect that you to the friendship loyalty even suspected your personality, simultaneously also worried usually can betray to boss's complaint by you, borrows is offering the information to climb up the higher order. In the office one of most beneficial body's and mind's movements, criticizes boss together in the behind, many colleagues are because “the common enemy” grows revolutionary sentiment, if were discovered you worked as the informer secretly, the friendship had henceforth been finished.

7th, making no distinction between what one's own and what belongs to the public

“is conscientious in discharging official duties” is also one of friendship murderers. Perhaps a side is thinking, we such are friends with, why requests to me such strictly? Even if had an accident, should also cover me is. But another side actually thought: Knew perfectly well that we such are friends with, should not feel embarrassed I, completes the matter lets me to the above confession, should not be old some situations to kill me! So is unable to achieve the mutual recognition, will cause many inconvenient and the damage, especially will have the mistake in official business, will blame mutually the situation will cause the injury, when especially middle a side will therefore withstand company's penalty, this section of friendships will be again also unable to recall. Suggested that the office good friends look for a time to make a clear distinction the first demarcation line, make a clear demarcation between public and private interests, but must constantly at heart is whispering: “you how will do this?”

8th, puts out a hand asking for money

Opens the mouth to the friend to lend money casually can only cause conflict between friend's. Opened the mouth actually not to be able to borrow the money, will complain opposite party to be ungrateful, thought that so will be usually good, originally will be only the superficial time; Lent money will think that the friendship presented the impurity, but must worry whether to have not returns. If has not been able to render back the money as scheduled, is owed money will possibly cause the repugnance: Such has been ripe, comes this move unexpectedly with me, was too excessive! Will owe money will be also discontented: This situation is also like I hopes, the friend is the adversity sees the true feelings, if one day of you to look like me to be equally bad luck, to hope that I put out a hand to help? If adds on family member's blame, under the pressure the friendship is unable to exist forever.

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Saturday, June 6, 2009

Twin's parents are easier to have the anxious mood

Imagines, what has pair of twin children to feel? Is surrounded by beautiful women, is certainly very satisfied! However, an item from Spain's newest research discovery, will be opposite in these only raises a child the parents, twin's parents will possibly suffer more troubles in the energetic aspect.

In a research, the researchers follow-up research 100 pair of twin's parents and surpassed a 700 pairs of embryo only to live child's parents, finally discovered that twin's parents were easier to present, anxious and so on depressed the negative mood. “raises a child to be able to create the very tremendous pressure to the human, He Kuang is two.”Industry in expert Dr. Shaw said from London. Dr. Shaw has not participated in this research, he thought that this research results are interesting, but is also very easy to misinterpret, “this does not mean into the twin the parents will change insane”. But, Dr. Shaw believed that the artificial insemination technology's application raised the present twin children's proportion. Therefore, doctor and the parents have the necessity even more to pay attention raise the twin the true cost. Now, every 4 use the artificial insemination technology in the woman, will have one person to cherish on the twin, but in the past, this proportion only then 1∶80.

Research before this once discovered that cherishes the twin the woman to be easier to suffer from many complications - - including the premature delivery, diabetes, hypertension and so on, but does not have the research to pay attention to the twin parents' mental health nearly. The researchers for the mother who accepted the investigation have provided the questionnaire, let them in be pregnant separately, child for two months, a child year-old time filled in answers. The result discovered that will be opposite only lives child's parents in these embryo, twin's parents will report frequently oneself met difficult problem, including anxious, sleep disorder and so on.

But the analysis believed that because sample quantity not enough big, therefore, although twin's parents reported these phenomena, but not necessarily they certainly fill on clinical anxious or have other energetic questions, needs the mental healing. Also had other experts to raise the question to this conclusion. They believed that perhaps twin's parents are not the real spirit easy not to present the ill health phenomenon, possibly is because they have not adapted their parents status. “their anxious level will possibly have the slight promotion, but will not be the major problem.”Cambridge University family Research center's Professor Susan Golombok said that “the majority parents are very willing to have a pair of twin. The questionnaire score in the mental health aspect high several points has not meant that they need to look at psychologist.”

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Friday, June 5, 2009

The blue color illumination may let the committing suicide brains restore soberly

In Japan, more and more public places start to use the blue light illumination, it is said that this can play the reduced crime and suppress the suicide the role.

in 2000, Britain's Glasgow to change the city's appearance, changed into the blue color the street light by the orange, the people afterward discovered that this act brought cut the crime rate the accidental result. in 2005, the Japanese Nara Police follow a set pattern, one year later the local at night crime rate reduced 10%. Afterward, this kind of lamp is called “guards against the lamp”, is widely applied in Japanese each region. The Japanese Osaka Railroad Company took the lead in several often to have suicide case's platform to install the blue color illumination, finally, in one year a person has not jumped down the platform. This experience is disseminated immediately expunges from a list. The Japanese iron along with it in places such as Aichi-ken, Mie-ken, has installed the blue color illumination. Looks from the platform, it sends out the chilly light, lets the human feel that truly has one marvelous strength.

About the blue color illumination's effect, Japanese Celebration Should University color psychology department's Professor Suzuki permanent male indicate that the blue color has the quiet role, it shifted the criminal or cares for felo-de-se's attention, can play certain inhibitory action. Because the criminal perhaps wants to commit suicide the human want to evade others vision, but once saw the light, had then felt he is in secluded nobody by no means the place. In addition, compares red, warm color departments and so on orange, the lonesome and quiet blue light lets the human be calm. At present, the blue color illumination not only applies in the inhabited area and the train station, at traffic accidents and so on some highway sends the region also to start to use, reduces the traffic accident. In addition, because Japan throws big-ticket item trash to need to pay expenses, some people still arrived at frequently trash the highway pull-up the trash can, after installing the blue color illumination, throws trash illegally the human also reduced 20%.

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Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Men are most afraid of five things

Since ancient times, men and "masculinity", "brave" linked to these terms, a matter of fact, there are many male psychological fear and worry. To sum up, men living there are five kinds of fear:
Men are most afraid of five thingsFirst, occupational and economic
As the men in the family's share of financial resources coupled with the larger "to earn money to feed their families," the traditional concept of effects, therefore, the greatest fear of men in the professional and economic aspects. Seven men confused life - a man from the notebook that day on, began to receive an education and gradually formed a concept: the world is a man's world, men dominate the world, male superiority.
Men are most afraid of five thingsSecond, for the fear of loss of health.
Men fear most is another thing to lose the capacity of an independent, must rely on someone else's care. Usually this is the case, is often a time when the body prone to illness. Men frustrated when a woman can do - a man frustrated at what is most needed? Believe that the hearts of every female compatriots have love want to know the answer. Na Ying's right is right, frustrated men, it was also love and marriage crisis. Well, not handled properly, the outcome will be very different. When you are frustrated when the men, how to do that?
Men are most afraid of five thingsThird, many men often have the fear of being abandoned.
After middle-aged men in particular fear of the wife or the neglect or abandon their children, so I encountered the attitude of family members for their disrespectful, they will react very sensitive. Why does he fear of the opposite sex - we may evaluate a man will have a dedication that he has money, status, were very high, and also very brave and so on, think this is a very important man, but as a real men, whether women can love their own, which is a capability to test a man's standard.
It is hoped that the psychological child to become professionals, men are often more eager than women, usually middle-aged men who fear their children could not meet their expectations, develop a spirit of burden-recurrent.Fourth, the children do not become cause for concern
It is hoped that the psychological child to become professionals, men are often more eager than women, usually middle-aged men who fear their children could not meet their expectations, develop a spirit of burden-recurrent.
Men are most afraid of five thingsFifth, the men of their own physical decline, reduced capacity of the concern is much more strongly than women.
Appeal for a variety of psychological phenomena, psychologists call it mental illness gray. Gray mental illness occur in the general issue of access to middle-aged men, mainly as follows: the spirit of the doldrums, unhappy stay, restless, but their psychological and denied that there was any variation. Why will men worry about sex life, sex life for men is an important sense of married life. Men yearn for a harmonious sex life and desire in their sexual life to be perfect, also have had a lot of fear ... ...

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Monday, May 18, 2009

Easy to anger the people of the time required for wound healing will be long

U.S. researchers found that easy to anger the people of the time required for wound healing will be long.

Previous studies have found that easy to anger, especially men, the occurrence of coronary heart disease, high blood pressure and a higher risk of stroke. The latest issue of the British "brain, behavior and immunity" magazine published a new study, the first direct assessment of irritability of the effects of wound healing time.

Ohio University, United States researchers said in the report, they recruited 98 volunteers, in his forearm to create a small burn, and then eight days of continuous observation. Volunteers are accepted in advance a series of psychological tests to assess their day-to-day frequency of anger, then by "anger level" classification. The researchers said that those surveyed did not include taking certain drugs, smoking, excessive coffee drinking people, not including the weight of people is too high or too low. The results showed that, for those who can not control anger, the test needs of a small wound over four days to recover, good humor about the people 3 times. The researchers speculate that the anger of the people vulnerable to stress hormone cortisol secretion ratio higher, it may be difficult to recover from their wounds reasons.

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Sunday, May 17, 2009

More men into "unrequited love" quagmire

British psychologists muenster Buddha pointed out that unrequited love is more common than love. In the UK, each year more than 100 million people, unfortunately, trapped in a "unrequited love" quagmire, especially in male.

Unrequited love may occur at any age, but in the age of 14-18 is more common, because boys and girls is in love this time of adolescent fantasy, not good at self-control. Marriageable men and women in 60% of the people "unrequited love", and 20% of the "love seed" love of others may also be the annual meeting 2-3. In addition, more than 60 years of age when the elderly do not love.

Buddha Munster believes that the universalization of unrequited love, and is closely related to the impact of film culture. Because the film found love and perseverance.

Love of others it is poor people, but those who love often worried about the end. 70% by others, "love" men and women said that at first he (she) would be complacent for their own charm, but then gradually declined to a positive result of hard, a lot of interference and is very troubling, and even angry with myself. Fortunately, the "unrequited love" most "life" is not long, with an average duration of only 36 days, the vast majority of people out of the shadows soon.

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Saturday, May 16, 2009

In a bad mood, and more open lamp

How high the ceiling to pick out what furniture, what light? These designers and architects seem to be concerned about. In "Scientific American" magazine in 2009 4, psychologists point out that these small details of the action more "hands" can help regulate our mood, improve our control of their mental capacity.In a bad mood, and more open lampIn 2007, the University of Minnesota Professor Joan Revie done an experiment, she will be 100 volunteers were randomly assigned to 8 feet (about 2.44 meters) and 10 feet high (about 3.05 meters) of the room, so that they completed a series of categorization task. It was found that people high in the room a more abstract classification, creativity, and in the lower room were thinking not so open, and more dedication to detail. Professor Levy therefore of the view that the body is a spacious room which decided how much of the brain to process information, the higher the roof, our sense of the more weakly bound, ideas and more "freedom", while the effect of low room with On the contrary. Professor Levy recommends that: the operating room, the office of accounting and proof-readers are engaged in precision work places, the ceiling may be lower, if not want to spend money freely, to sign checks can also find a small room; and ideas or need to create a place , such as the Chamber, will be a spacious building. In addition, the choice of light-colored wall paint or decorate a mirror, but also an extension of our psychological space.
Adequate light, smart-minded, in a good mood.If not adjust the ceiling, then the psychological impact of another factor to adjust the light source is entirely --- little effort. A U.S. study of 21,000 people found that the short duration of bright sunshine than areas to live in sunny areas of student reading and math to high-7% -18%; and neurologists in the Netherlands to 612 households tune-liang and increasing the lighting equipment, the prevalence rate of Alzheimer's by 5% lower, depression decreased by 19%. The researchers pointed out that light can affect the body's secretion of glucocorticoids, thus affecting the extent of the brain and emotional strength to wake up. Therefore, the researchers suggested that the issue of working hours can use the Blu-ray diode and the whole spectrum of the fluorescent lamp, which can upset the appropriate lamp or over-emphasize the bright light more.

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Friday, May 15, 2009

"Men are not bad, women do not love" is not true

According to the Associated Press reports: People often say "not bad men, women do not love," but researchers have recently claimed that the United States, which may not be true.

University of Pennsylvania researchers Ovari Ecuador tribal study found that in this warlike tribe, the better to beat the man, his wife and son less. Ovari known as the killings, they were not only under external relentless, with the tribal people also often struggle to start is the anthropology of "kill rate" of the tribal supreme. Five people in their 42% of people die of internal tribal strife, 8% of people die of the conflict with the outside world. The researchers gathered 23 of the tribal region of men have experienced war have been interviewed. It was found that the more aggressive male, his wife and the fewer the number of children, the shorter life expectancy. In fact, Ovari tribal children are rarely able to live to reproductive age.

As for Venezuela, the same militant Yanoramy tribal men, the situation is just the opposite. This tribe of men more adept at fighting, the more his wife. The researchers found that, Yanoramy the number of deaths in the general balance of the enemy after the flame, in the new round to recuperate before the start of the war. Ovari and has never tired of war, they will be grandparents or even the war launched scores. The purpose of their operations is not a balance between the enemy and ourselves, but to wipe out the other side. It was learned that the study was conducted by the U.S. National Science Foundation-funded research results published in the "National Academy of Sciences" on.

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Man's mental age younger than the real 13-year-old

Man's mental age younger than the real 13-year-oldPeople often say, "but old people are not old heart." According to the latest issue of the United States, "Journal of geriatric medicine," the quarterly report, the scientists found that despite the growing elderly physical aging, but their mental age younger than the physiological age of the average 13-year-old mental age in which more young men.
Man's mental age younger than the real 13-year-oldUniversity of Chicago Psychology Professor Jackie Smith led the study. They spent 6 years to assess the age of 516 men and women aged over 70 found that mental age of these people are generally lower than physiological age, which are almost all men feel smaller than the actual age. Smith analysis, more women than men care about appearance than men and therefore mental age is closer to the actual age. This is not to say men do not mind getting older, but their assessment of life satisfaction are more factors, after the elderly is still able to accept new things.
Man's mental age younger than the real 13-year-oldThe researchers said that older age and mental health conditions. Younger people feel better health status, and poorer health status of the elderly, mental age and actual age is even more similar.

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Thursday, May 14, 2009

From your feet to see your emotions

From your feet to see your emotionsAccording to the British "Daily Telegraph" reported that, in fact, taken place in our shoes only know half the things. History of U.S. experts Jen Hun said: "We have a 26 foot bones and nerve 3000. Basically, your health, emotional and so the situation will spread to many feet, where the show." Hun said: "I can not predict the future, but I can see through your past and present. Your feet I can tell everything." From your feet can not only see your pedicure habits, but also that you are happy . She said that a person in a bad mood, the walk will focus on the soles of his feet before, so toes will deepen the color of skin. Another testing method is to color the feet with this person more than his skin color comparison, if the foot is more pale color of his blood circulation problems, and yellow is a mood of irritability symbol.

In addition, from your feet you can see the emotions. Not only the feet can tell you the status of some cases, the foot shape can reveal your secret. She used an "alphabet toes," a person can take off the socks after 1 minutes, to say the person's personality. In fact, when you experience strong mood swings, you can show the whole body out. For example, the tension will start from scratch, neck or stomach show up, when you nervous, the big toe was purple parts will. Right foot on the second toe want to show something you are, if you desire to achieve, and this will be the root toes touch the ground. If it does not dip, or its third toes with the gap between the left to show that you are working from out of a bad mood. The fourth root of your toes reflects your relationship with others. If someone close to talk about with you in person, he was unhappy when the fourth toe will naturally vibrate gently. However, why is not clear that this instinct may be related to the contraction of the tendon. Finally, if the small toe on the starting callosity belly, then the responsibility of the person too.

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Thursday, May 7, 2009

Beware! Four kinds of behavior indulged easy for men

Beware! Four kinds of behavior indulged easy for menHelp you clean up the room
Girls always love to clean, love the look spotless. Of course, there are many girls taking care of their room in fact lazy, but as it is the same: When the dust plot to a certain time they will suddenly germination at any time to the idea of carrying out clean. And it was dealt with by a lot of garbage, brush with a new hand-washing cloth is a sense of feeling. And in line with the characteristics of the room above, the majority of the boys there are bound to happen. Therefore, when there are girls to your home, and then to see your house or offensive room, many women do want to help germination clean kind of feeling refreshed! At the same time, women carefully clean up the room with the gentle man at the same time to arouse the "mother" of sentimentally attached to this role, and then interesting that women on their own. In fact, this kind of desire from the women themselves, in part from a play only when the mind, has nothing to do with love.
Please call your meal
Although many dating from the beginning of each invited to dinner. However, when young girls do not have much time to a matter of fact the idea of such a provision. Dinner is on them to pass the time and understanding of a way to new friends. About you to eat them, sometimes because the restaurant has never done, just looking for people to also. Hello or feel bullied, they will catch you please eat a good, or else really bored in the QQ or MSN on clinging to who is who. Therefore, there are other girls around you happy to eat too early, of course, you have the ability to get her during the dinner is another matter.
Beware! Four kinds of behavior indulged easy for menTake you to buy clothes
Please note that take you to buy clothes, not to help you buy clothes. The difference is that the former, may be you have to buy clothes but you need the opposite sex, or she really think you are too Otaku gone over the line, would like to help you re-create! You do not think that only the girls will want to look on you, if your image is too dirty or "house", it is usually very easily lead to a beauty such as has been the transformation of life For the girls. Moreover, this is already a "shopaholic" and they just have an excuse to stroll around the streets, even to men's rather than their own, but also to buy clothes addiction solution. However, when she automatically help you to buy clothes, then gone over the line is really not so simple. Unless she has a boyfriend, just that he bought the clothes do not fit because I want to sell out and buy second-hand that you are on.
And you see the film
Times have changed, it means that you eat may not be unreasonable to have a favorable impression. Girls boys about the time a movie is because many want to see movies, do not want to look at a person. Oscar seems to some large, it is necessary to look at one girl is very depressing thing. It is also possible that the movie is too popular, she or her boyfriend's female friends of people do not want to do with her, just promise you this great good man, so the person you are. All in all, the world environmental protection, and also opening up a lot of people. There is no illusions about the opposite sex and a live alone because of the stimulating hormone is not a 24-hour operation. If the above acts you feel that women have attempted, but probably you just attack the body's hormones. Of course, it does not rule out the occurrence of traditional dating, but not confirmed in all the former, do not pigeon-holing permission, or embarrassed or loss of you offer your unrequited love.

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Monday, May 4, 2009

Kissing the quality determines the extent of progress in love

Kissing the quality determines the extent of progress in loveKiss is not a simple touch of two lips. A recent study found that the quality of kiss, will decide how to develop love. At the same time, the study noted that women and men different attitude on the Kiss and hope does not get the same feeling; and women compared to men are more likely to further intimate kissing as a transition, and sometimes also used to make up with his girlfriend.
Kissing the quality determines the extent of progress in loveAccording to the U.S. network Fox News reported that the U.S. University of Albany found that 59% of men and 66% of women who had been attracted to someone, but after a kiss, it will completely lose interest in him. In the study, men tended to French hot kiss, like the mouth too much. Analysis of the researchers, this may be due to men and women compared to poor taste and smell, need more saliva to assess the feelings and the other side. While women prefer to kiss like a gentle, easy-to-digest better, getting better.
Kissing the quality determines the extent of progress in loveAt the same time, men do not have to kiss will be able to "go straight to the theme of" sexual relations and love. And for women, there is no kiss, is a must not have sexual relations. Them to kiss each other as the relationship between the establishment and inspection of the important ways. "Kissing helps women to identify the loyalty of love. If kissing each other to reduce the frequency of sudden, or kissing a change in the way that she can be sensitive and aware of each other's interest is waning."
Kissing the quality determines the extent of progress in loveEarlier, in the United States Institute of the meeting, the experts discovered that a good kiss the average duration of 45 seconds, 34 may affect the facial muscles, and thus set off sexual desire. Well-known psychologists of Germany, Dr. Elisabeth pointed out that the best way of kissing three kinds, simple and practical:
Kissing the quality determines the extent of progress in loveFirst, the closed type. In the initial stages of love, they are shy and some, at this time should be the kiss of their mouths closed, limited to a kiss between the lips and the lip.
Kissing the quality determines the extent of progress in loveSecond, the half-open half-type. One side to the other side of the upper lip between the lower lip, and then gently about friction. This will enable both excited.
Kissing the quality determines the extent of progress in loveThird, the convex-concave type. Lips gently with the friction between the lip and then sucking each other. So in general, access to more comprehensive expression of the feelings will be more enthusiastic.

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Saturday, April 25, 2009

Place of residence reflects the character of people

University of Cambridge study found that people choose a place of residence to some extent reflects the character of this man.

According to the British "Daily Telegraph" reported a few days ago, the study found that living in London, the British are the most diligent of all the British, the most creative and most outward-looking, but they are also the worst temper; living in Germany Wen County, Cornwall, Northumberland and Tyneside English is obviously the least easy-going, the most nervous; East Midlands residents are more responsible, and always happy. According to reports, the conclusion is that more than 10,000 in the British made after an investigation. The study found, on the whole, outgoing, talented people who are willing to go to urban living, to, do not want to be bound by the people like to live in rural or small town.

Jason sponsor research that personality and characteristics of different people scattered throughout the United Kingdom, but with the increase in population mobility, have the same characteristics of the people start to congregate. "Place of residence of a strong impact on satisfaction with life, when people think that their personality is similar to the surrounding people, they are most happy". According to reports, Jason had 600,000 Americans conducted a questionnaire survey and in accordance with the findings of the publication of a "personality map of the United States": living in the east coast were more irritability, depression, pressure; the residents of the west coast in the emotional more stable and calm and relaxed. Jason's findings with the previously popular "World is Flat" book, contrary to the theory. In this book, the authors believe that globalization will Friedman gradual elimination of regional disparities.

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Thursday, April 23, 2009

Laugh with diabetes can reduce the number of the risk of heart disease.

U.S. researchers to target patients with diabetes to the latest survey shows that laughter can be happy every day to improve patient "good cholesterol" (high density lipoprotein) levels and reduce the risk of heart attack, which also re-verify that the "Laughter is medicine "is.

Loma Linda University of California, a research group selected the average age of 20 to 50-year-old Type II diabetic patients will be divided into two groups of them. In a one-year survey, the researchers let them watch a group of patients with at least 30 minutes daily humorous video, easy to enjoy happy times with laughter. When the survey was conducted two months, the researchers found, compared with the control group of patients every day to laugh these patients epinephrine and norepinephrine levels were low, these two hormones are considered to feel the pressure of people related, indicating decompression in helping them laugh. One year after the inspection data to watch another film of a group of patients with "good cholesterol" levels rose by 26% in patients with the control group increased by only 3 percent, while the "good cholesterol" has a protective effect on cardiovascular. In addition, C-reactive protein on the in vivo level, the former decreased by 66%, while the control group decreased only 26%. C-reactive protein is a marker of inflammation in vivo, are considered risk of a heart attack.

Researcher Lee Berk said that the two sets of data from the statistical point of view is very important that laughter can help reduce some of the human body "bad material" level, to raise a number of "good material" level of play to prevent disease role, and are receiving certain drugs for the treatment of patients laugh also can not be ignored, "efficacy."

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Wednesday, April 22, 2009

The four restricted of men's psychological

It seems that the restricted area in the men raising the fish in the glass, because glass is transparent, he could not stop you see, but you can not attempt to cross the glass. When you intentionally or unintentionally, through a piece of glass, the men would like to enter a state of alert from the hedgehog state of war, all over the barbed open, things were not going to start this.
The four restricted of men's psychologicalA minefield: the flawed family man's vanity is a restricted area, and when he can not change, can only hope that you are invisible; not at this point, I hope you are ignored; If you can not ignore, it is best to do know but it does not say these things out and turn a blind eye. Good joke, we should not be, otherwise, he will think you are in a sneer at his family fun defects.
The four restricted of men's psychologicalMined b: a man's sexual self-confidence fragile and sensitive, and after the improvements are restricted after the man's sexual. If you do not want to lose and be happy, do not be absolutely wise and after, it passed to the men equivalent to an error message: This time, he was a failure, you hope that he will be improved next time. Exchange is not wrong, but to choose the time, after love, the men would like to see the lazy kind of contented women, and not also in high spirits talking to him one way or another.
The four restricted of men's psychologicalThree areas: the former's love for men, self-esteem suffered far more than the sad romance: He not only grip the hearts of women, but also unable to control her body to escape. Ex-girlfriend's name is a restricted area of love, because she is a symbol of his wounded self-esteem, no man likes to keep it around there.
The four restricted of men's psychologicalFour areas: self-confidence when the men are frustrated, self-confidence and capacity for self-affirmation of his most sensitive restricted area, no room for a single query and negative, otherwise, let him feel: the development of things than he expected to be much worse.

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Friday, April 17, 2009

Bad mood will help upgrade the memory

Australian researchers to a new study shows that good or bad feelings will have an impact on the level of human memory. Lead to bad or cold weather, when people feel bad, memory is often better; fine weather will be a good feeling distracted people become forgetful.

Agence France-Presse reported that the University of New South Wales researchers to toy guns, can save 10 items on a store counter, when consumers leave the store and ask if they can see the types of goods. Research Team Leader Joseph said that in the cold, windy and rainy day and play classical music environment, tested the number of consumer goods is to remember at the time of fine weather 3 times. "We found that (bad) weather the negative emotions can improve the accuracy of memory," he wrote in the study report, "consumers in a bad mood is not only a better memory, higher resolution." Joseph further analysis of the reasons that help to focus the attention of the bad feelings, so that thinking becomes more thorough and careful; and sunny weather will be a good feeling distracted at the same time it is self-confidence to become forgetful. He said that the study results show that the "emotional role" will be introduced into the legal, medical and forensic identification of such areas in order to help employees work better.

The study published in the latest issue of "experimental social psychology" journals.

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